confidence vs. bossiness

i think i sometimes mistake confidence for bossiness. I think I am a naturally passive person, and shy too. I think I thought that meant I didn't have confidence. It seemed to come to me out of nowhere that confidence isn't bossiness. it seems obvious probably. i think at times i would try to imitate confidence and it came off as bossy. I have decided that confidence isn't speaking your opinion a lot its trusting yourself. I can be totally confident and still be shy and passive.

Now I can finally be perfect!!

haha just kidding. but don't you think that its a lesson learned and worth recording?